Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think? [Reply]
Originally Posted by RustShack:
...and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.
Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either fucking the girl, or she's someone you'd like to fuck if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in fucking. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.
So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and fuck action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.
He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already. [Reply]
Originally Posted by GonzoRox88:
Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.
Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.
So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.
He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.
Originally Posted by kcrockaholic4life:
Harsh. But true.
I just went through a fairly similar situation with my former fiance. I had to cut my losses, and it was pretty painful and really a shitty situation, but it had to be done.
Trust me dude. Either try to get your relationship straight like RIGHT F*CKING NOW..or cut your losses and move on. Don't let this drag out any longer, it's not gonna end well for either party involved. [Reply]