Originally Posted by Claythan:
I thought of that, but we're talking about an online dating site. If she's going to play people like that, it's kind of retarded. If you're not attracted to someone physically it's probably not going to work. Attraction is not a choice.
Would you rather meet her and have her look better than her picture, or meet her and have her look worse than her picture? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
That would be no different than putting up a picture of you that looks better than you actually do. Basically the same game. I'm not saying I do that, but I wouldn't put it past a lot of people.
I'm thankful that I don't have to play such games. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Donger:
I'm thankful that I don't have to play such games.
I would say the same, but I don't get a lot of dates being me. Almost enough to tempt me to do so. But I can't go for long with being something I'm not. Just not the way I operate, I guess. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
I would say the same, but I don't get a lot of dates being me. Almost enough to tempt me to do so. But I can't go for long with being something I'm not. Just not the way I operate, I guess.
Thankfully, I never had to very much. I've almost always been deeply involved, even when I was a teenager.
Although, I did tell one girl who was f*cking nuts that my father was a member of MI5 and that we had to leave the country. Embarrassingly, it turns out that she was friends with a girl at the time who would end up being one of my SiLs. [Reply]
What if it's a front to see if he likes her for who she is and not what she looks like? Maybe it's an old picture of her, and she's lost a lot of weight and looks good now. After being overweight, and not being able to get many dates, getting dates after losing weight might make one question whether the person interested is interested in her for her or for her looks.
I don't honestly see that happening.
I'm not advocating him contacting her to be a complete dick because she's overweight. I just know that at least he'd make a good friend if not something more. Hell maybe he can use his new found confidence to get her to start losing weight. [Reply]
Lucky for me I live in a big city and dont have to date online. In fact, I would never ever consider it. I like meeting girls at bars, clubs, pubs and social functions held by my company. And believe me , I get to meet a ton of them. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Midnight_Vulture:
Lucky for me I live in a big city and dont have to date online. In fact, I would never ever consider it. I like meeting girls at bars, clubs, pubs and getting them to take pictures with me (but thats it). Believe me , I get a ton of pictures.
Originally Posted by Midnight_Vulture:
Lucky for me I live in a big city and dont have to date online. In fact, I would never ever consider it. I like meeting girls at bars, clubs, pubs and social functions held by my company. And believe me , I get to meet a ton of them.
That's because you're awesome. And a stud. [Reply]
