Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?
My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.
I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.
I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.
Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY:
OK specifics. Cheating is sex specifically. What is going too far? Groping on each other, kissing, blowjobs, sex. Specific enough?
Cool, thanks for answering.
Is there nothing outside of actual physical contact that would disturb you? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Taco John:
I don't get it... You're allowed to cheat on her, but she's not allowed to cheat on you?
We went out this weekend and I was dancing with different girls, she doesn't care that I spend time with them or hang out. Of course I don't cheat on her unless you consider having sex with another women in a threesome as cheating. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Cool, thanks for answering.
Is there nothing outside of actual physical contact that would disturb you?
There is physical contact in dancing or dirty dancing but as long as it is not groping kissing kind of shit I am OK with that.
Besides that. There is no reason for her to be getting a guys phone number. Online I suppose if they were going on about how she wanted him to do her I would have to take a serious look at our relationship. That's not sharing mutual stuff. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
What gets me is how I'm an a$$hole for bringing it up.
I'm like a cop at a frat party.
I don't think your an asshole I just don't think your handling it right. I gotta go to a meeting and am out though so I'll see you guys tomorrow. [Reply]
