I need some help with some things i need to know on gettin married, the do's, the dont's, the things you need to know about that.
I see you guys here some are married some arent so the ones that know stuff i need to know let me know about it.
So what are the things i should know about it, cause i dont wanna wait my whole life to get married, i actually wanna be married before i turn 26 which is 6 years from now.
But I wanna get started early in startin a family, so what are the do's and dont's in marriage ???
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
You're just caught up in an infatuation, III. Take a couple more months to spend every minute with her; sleep with her every night (maybe even pull the twin beds apart for a few days at a time every once in a while); literally take notes on every time you two fight; study those notes; think in great detail about what it would be like to go through that for 10 years EXCEPT every week for that 10 years, the relationship will deteriorate as much as it did in those couple of months; and then get back to us at the end of that couple months...you won't even want to hear the word "marriage".
I'm not going to read this whole thread but III do you even have a job? I've seen that you have hung around daddy's house longer than normal then you are at liberty to go spend three weeks with your sweetie. How do you intend to support? Just curious.
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
You're just caught up in an infatuation, III. Take a couple more months to spend every minute with her; sleep with her every night (maybe even pull the twin beds apart for a few days at a time every once in a while); literally take notes on every time you two fight; study those notes; think in great detail about what it would be like to go through that for 10 years EXCEPT every week for that 10 years, the relationship will deteriorate as much as it did in those couple of months; and then get back to us at the end of that couple months...you won't even want to hear the word "marriage".
I suppose next you'll be giving him driving lessons...
Who is going to be the one to bring up the how-to-get-laid thread?
Roy, seriously, you are WAAAY too young to talk marriage. There are drastic changes to people at the ages of 21, 25, and 30. I would suggest going through ALL of those changes before you even start considering settling down. Trust me (and everyone else) on this one.
Originally Posted by gochiefs:
That's absolutely not true. My parents didn't get married until they were in their late 20s and had kids in their early and mid 30s.
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
You've had what, 6 more years than I have? You've accomplished less than I have...just pack your things and move to a different thread, gochiefs.
That's because I wasn't even trying for 19 years...wasn't my fault, either, it was my religion.