The big anti-hijack thread.....
Talk about anything, but if this works than we don't have to keep looking around all the threads to see who is still on tonight, and every night, or even every day! Talk about the chiefs, talk about tomorrow, talk about football, politics or even how to do flooring and the applicable budget. What you're drinking, how hard it is to sleep, etc. Every thing is acceptable in this thread.....
Originally Posted by Joie:
If you've got a goal postwhore away. Don't be a pussy and hold us accountable.
Listen we have a bond here on the 10pm thread. If you're too pussy to see that, then I'm sorry. Most threads don't hold a candle to this place! Except maybe Simplexs' Penicillin thread or whatever.
Joie you need to study up on what the word "Family" means!
Originally Posted by Simplex3:
See, you have an expectation that the experience will be bad. All pain and suffering derive from our expectations. If you can remove those expectations you can avoid the bad experiences.
How? I was ok until we walked in. Then I freaked out. Even the sound of the drill in another room and the talking of the staff about my teeth freaks me out. The music did help considerably. I really want to get over this.
Originally Posted by Simply Red:
Listen we have a bond here on the 10pm thread. If you're too pussy to see that, then I'm sorry. Most threads don't hold a candle to this place! Except maybe Simplexs' Penicillin thread or whatever.
Joie you need to study up on what the word "Family" means!
I do understand and I also know family is about communication. You did not communicate your goal to us until you had already given up on it. If you would like to sit and join us perhaps we could help you. Otherwise, I'm sorry but you seem to have made your own choice.
Originally Posted by Joie:
How? I was ok until we walked in. Then I freaked out. Even the sound of the drill in another room and the talking of the staff about my teeth freaks me out. The music did help considerably. I really want to get over this.
It's about training your mind to not expect bad things when those triggers happen. You need to learn to detach your senses from your expectations.
Originally Posted by Joie:
I do understand and I also know family is about communication. You did not communicate your goal to us until you had already given up on it. If you would like to sit and join us perhaps we could help you. Otherwise, I'm sorry but you seem to have made your own choice.
Originally Posted by Simplex3:
It's about training your mind to not expect bad things when those triggers happen. You need to learn to detach your senses from your expectations.
Meditation is the fastest way to train your mind to remove expectations. Basically you'll learn to stop thinking, meaning that you won't have those triggers fire off.
Originally Posted by Simplex3:
Meditation is the fastest way to train your mind to remove expectations. Basically you'll learn to stop thinking, meaning that you won't have those triggers fire off.
I am willing to try it. How does it work? Just practice freeing the mind or is it more complicated?
Originally Posted by Simplex3:
Meditation is the fastest way to train your mind to remove expectations. Basically you'll learn to stop thinking, meaning that you won't have those triggers fire off.
