Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think? [Reply]
Hey, Rust, man...doesn't sound good. I'm not saying she is 100% guilty, but that is uncool.
I think the part that is scary is you don't know her friends. My wife and I know all of each other's friends. I talk about my wife all of the time, anyway. If she doesn't want you to be around her friends there is a problem unless it is some sort of exclusive hen's night or something. To all of our friends, on either side, it is me and my wife or vice versa. It is never just me or just her.
As for male friends, it is possible for them to exist, but most of the ones that don't want to bone her are good friends with me also. I have some friends that are female that I have no intention of fucking. It is possible, but if your girl isn't willing to include you, there are problems, not necessarily cheating, but problems with the relationship.
I think the best thing to do is be open, honest, and explicit with your concerns. She may get pissed, but at some point during the relationship you will have to communicate. If you can't do it now, whether or not she is cheating, there will be problems later. Posted via Mobile Device [Reply]
be strong though, don't fall into the trap of being bored and still dating her. cut your losses drink whiskey and move on like a wayne jennings listening bad mother fer [Reply]
I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Lumpy:
I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too [Reply]
Originally Posted by Sure-Oz:
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too
Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.
Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.
I see...
Girls want to know they are loved and the guy will fight for them, but at the same time if you believe in your game then you won't come off a certain way and turn her off even more, keyword be a man should be enough for him [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.
I wasn't saying be a caveman and go ape, he just needs to be confident with himself when talking to her, im sure he's a bit insecure right now [Reply]