Originally Posted by Pestilence:
Go over there for a talk. If things are going well....then you can offer to take her out to dinner or order dinner in.
Originally Posted by Buck:
So that really pissed me off and I went sort of crazy, I didn't do anything stupid regarding her, but I started drinking a lot and doing drugs and acting like a crazy person.
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Don't go over there. Invite her over, and be on the couch in an old ratty robe with your junk hanging out when she arrives.
Or I can just go over to her house wearing the same robe... [Reply]
Originally Posted by Buck:
I've got a weird one tonight. Let me give you some background.
She was going through a little rough patch recently and it was getting passed onto me. She wasn't communicating with me and it started to piss me off. So I sort of just got mad and I guess I was acting like a dick towards her and then when I finally wanted to see her she didn't want to see me because I was being mean.
So that really pissed me off and I went sort of crazy, I didn't do anything stupid regarding her, but I started drinking a lot and doing drugs and acting like a crazy person.
Fast forward to last night, I posted a status on facebook saying, "I think you are smart, funny, cool, and attractive. You also frustrate me. Good night." I didnt put it on her wall, just a status. Well I received a text within 1 minute asking what was up with that.
So I told her that her lack of communication was frustrating me and I just want to talk. She told me that she gets off work at 4 pm today and we can talk then. The last time I saw her she was unemployed I didn't even know she got a job, lol.
Ok ok ok...anyways... So I'm going to talk to her tonight. Should I take her out to dinner? Should I just go to her house? Bring takeout chinese food over there? Should I get her flowers?
I have no idea how this is going to go down so I'm sort of nervous.
She sounds kind of like a bitch so now flowers or out for dinner. So go to her house, maybe take out chinese food ONLY if she will let you do nasty stuff to her like PIIHB. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Predarat:
She sounds kind of like a bitch so now flowers or out for dinner. So go to her house, maybe take out chinese food ONLY if she will let you do nasty stuff to her like PIIHB.
She found out her dad has a terminal illness, so I sort of feel selfish that she wasn't thinking about me as much.
As much as I was pissed at her, I feel stupid for acting the way I did. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Tell her that, and you might get laid.
Strategy!
Thanks for the tip!
But seriously, I'm sort of dreading it because I really like this girl, and there is a chance that it all ends tonight, which would suck, but at least I can stop acting like a bitch. [Reply]
But seriously, I'm sort of dreading it because I really like this girl, and there is a chance that it all ends tonight, which would suck, but at least I can stop acting like a bitch.
Originally Posted by Buck:
Fast forward to last night, I posted a status on facebook saying, "I think you are smart, funny, cool, and attractive. You also frustrate me. Good night." I didnt put it on her wall, just a status. Well I received a text within 1 minute asking what was up with that.
