Originally Posted by Direckshun:
Does anybody here just stop communicating, though? That's a chick thing, through and through. Doesn't tell you she's not interested, she just freakin' ignores you until you get the message.
I don't think there's ever been a single chick I've dropped that I couldn't tell face to face.
Originally Posted by luv:
There are guys that do that, too.
Then they're pussies.
There's no reason you can't tell someone you went on a handful of dates with that you're just not interested anymore. You'd have to be completely spineless. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Direckshun:
Then they're pussies.
There's no reason you can't tell someone you went on a handful of dates with that you're just not interested anymore. You'd have to be completely spineless.
Agreed. Although, I'll admit I've done it once. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
If she's lost that easily, then she wasn't worth it.
Most people gage the level of interest someone is likely to have in their pet hobby and share accordingly, especially when they first meet the person. I'm sure Dickershun falls in that catagory (i.e. I was pulling his chain). [Reply]
Originally Posted by cdcox:
Most people gage the level of interest someone is likely to have in their pet hobby and share accordingly, especially when they first meet the person. I'm sure Dickershun falls in that catagory (i.e. I was pulling his chain).
Went to this weeklong orientation a few months ago. Whole time, sat next to this woman. We hit it off okay, and by the end of the week I made a move and asked for her number so we could go grab some drinks some time.
She said sure, gave me her number, then never answered the phone or returned my call.
Went to this weeklong orientation a few months ago. Whole time, sat next to this woman. We hit it off okay, and by the end of the week I made a move and asked for her number so we could go grab some drinks some time.
She said sure, gave me her number, then never answered the phone or returned my call.
Grown, adult women. It's really dumb.
You should be the next contestant on that NBC 20 vs 40 crap. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Maybe they're shy. Or don't want to hurt your feelings.
Most realistically, they're seriously selfish, spineless, or mentally defunct.
Because I've been shy for a portion of my life, and I certainly don't make it a habit to hurt people's feelings unless they're Bronco fans. But that's why I actively tell them I'm not interested.
You'd have to be a special kind of stupid to think that just shutting someone out is easier on them than simply telling them you're not interested. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Direckshun:
You'd have to be a special kind of stupid to think that just shutting someone out is easier on them than simply telling them you're not interested.
I agree 100%. If I'm not interested, or know I have no intentions of answering when a guy calls, it's a lot easier to not give him my number. That, plus it makes zero sense to give your number to a perfect stranger who you plan on jilting (sp?).
I've been on the receiving end a few times myself. I know how it feels, so I wouldn't want to do that to someone else. [Reply]