Originally Posted by wutamess:
He knows it all. He's gotten plenty of advice to stop the Internet dating charades and pick up chicks in real life. That's too much of a daunting task for him so let him sulk in his 90% failure rate while trying to impress
"normal" Inet chicks.
I do agree with what your saying man. I myself am pretty lazy and know that if i fail with anything its normally due to lack of trying. He on the other hand probably thinks hes putting in the same if not more effort than everyone else... [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts:
I can't help but always think some doucher around here tracks them down and points them to us.
That would be a really fucked up thing to do to someone...
I've dated women from online before, I don't think it's a huge deal but he's obviously doing something wrong in effort/approach or he really sucks at conversation. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts:
I can't help but always think some doucher around here tracks them down and points them to us.
But I don't think he even gave a name or picture or link to her profile. If somebody did that, they had to have gone waaaay out of their way to do some real investigative shit.
Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
I don't really give a shit anymore. The opposite sex is a waste of my goddamn time. I'm too lazy to deal with any of this crap. Fuck it.
Just stop looking for awhile and let them come to you. The best relationships come when you least expect it, and with the least amount of effort. [Reply]
Originally Posted by BCD:
Just stop looking for awhile and let them come to you. The best relationships come when you least expect it, and with the least amount of effort.
Amen. If you have to work at it in the beginning, it's wrong. Marriage - yeah, you have to work at it, because it deserves some effort, but at the beginning, no. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Agreed. Most people who are using online dating sites aren't using JUST online dating sites.
Most of the women I meet are from Internet sites. Otherwise, its someone that knows someone. I'm not the type to just approach a woman. Never have been. I always meet them at a public location. And I'm not looking to just get laid. Well, there was a time shortly after my fiancé dumped me when I was doing a little whoring around. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Braincase:
Amen. If you have to work at it in the beginning, it's wrong. Marriage - yeah, you have to work at it, because it deserves some effort, but at the beginning, no.
Plus, women HATE when you ignore them. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
None of you understand what I'm going through. I'm in hell. I can't have casual sex because my wang doesn't work. I can't date because there is some horrible flaw in my personality that prevents chicks from giving a shit about me. I can't even suck cock, because it tastes horrible.
HELL.
Dude I told you how to take care of part of your problem. At least part of it. On dating take it easy. Date a few "non-hot" gals. The funny thing is most of the time they are a lot more interesting and have more depth than the "hot" ones anyway.
When I went out on first dates I was always excited because I was going to get to hear a new life story, share some funny dating war stories and enjoy myself whether they liked it or not. I had no expectations. If it ended up a hand shake and goodbye or a 12 orgasm evening it didn't really matter. What did matter was having fun and enjoying the process of learning about another person. [Reply]
