Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts:
You need to learn how to get your fingers wet on the first date. That'll speed up the process. No worries. You're still finding the right 53.
Doesn't it depend on the girl?
I tried to get her to take her shirt off but she apparently wasn't feeling like a total slut tonight. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts:
You need to learn how to get your fingers wet on the first date. (Clear or milky... not brown.) That'll speed up the process. No worries. You're still finding the right 53.
Fixed for clarity. (NTTAWWT, but... probably shouldn't go there on the first date.) :-) [Reply]
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Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
Doesn't it depend on the girl?
I tried to get her to take her shirt off but she apparently wasn't feeling like a total slut tonight.
It does to a certain degree. But your close rate is horrible, which is pretty natural at this point. You need to start getting a little more aggressive IMO.
Here's my point on this. You're the nice guy, and you get a little tongue and maybe cop a feel on a boobie and then you never hear from them again anyway. Why not just continue to try and put your hand down their pants despite them telling you no?
What's the worst that can happen? They kick you out? You were never going to hear from them again anyway. Girls want a man with a firm hand for the most part. If you're not willing to try and take it, they think you're weak.
It's time to take off the training wheels and learn how to get some pussy.
I'm being dead serious, but what do I know? I'm married. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts:
It does to a certain degree. But your close rate is horrible, which is pretty natural at this point. You need to start getting a little more aggressive IMO.
Here's my point on this. You're the nice guy, and you get a little tongue and maybe cop a feel on a boobie and then you never hear from them again anyway. Why not just continue to try and put your hand down their pants despite them telling you no?
What's the worst that can happen? They kick you out? You were never going to hear from them again anyway. Girls want a man with a firm hand for the most part. If you're not willing to try and take it, they think you're weak.
It's time to take off the training wheels and learn how to get some pussy.
I'm being dead serious, but what do I know? I'm married. :-)
Yes, I agree, date rape the shit out of them brother, that's what a real man would do. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by UL Washington:
Yes, I agree, date rape the shit out of them brother, that's what a real man would do. :-)
LOL, blow it all out of proportion. That's fine.
I'm not suggesting he should force himself on anyone. If they're persistent, it's pretty clear that you pack it up and go home.
I sincerely apologize to all of the dumb motherfuckers out there that took my post as literally as Mr. Washington here. I would genuinely hate like hell to get any of you in trouble. No means no. Enjoy masturbation. [Reply]