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A 28-year-old Lake Charles-area woman faces a bevy of charges after Louisiana police said she repeatedly had sex with a 13-year-old boy who she met at the Bible camp where she was a teacher/aide.
According to the Sulphur Daily News, Heather Daughdrill initiated the relationship in June and it continued until a complaint was filed in October. After her arrest on November 29, police told the paper that Daughdrill would pick her victim up from school without his parents' knowledge and subject him to sexual encounters. Louisiana cops also reportedly found sexually explicit texts between Daughdrill and her victim.
Originally Posted by ghak99:
Maybe our resident teachers will comment, but covid changed everything here.
Kids, that want to, have had near constant contact with their teachers through their school apps and iPads here ever since. If a kid messages a teacher while doing homework many of them expect a response, and get it, within the hour. For many, remote learning simply broke a barrier that is very difficult to put back up unless teachers or the school board put up a strict no contact outside of hours policy.
Our local school board is having discussions about this now in preparation for dialing it back another notch for next year. On top of the obvious issues it can lead to, teachers shouldn't be expected to answer questions all evening and kids shouldn't be expecting them to either.
Different states/districts do it differently, but we have a collectively bargained contract. I'm paid to perform my duties from 7:55 till 3:25 for 188 days from August to June. If a kid wants to stay after school for extra help I'm not going to site the contract and say no. And I usually get to work half an hour early and hang around 20 minutes after the last kids leave.
But beyond that we are being paid extra by the school district or a parent. I've taken on extra duties like detention or bus monitor and I've tutored students outside of school. I got paid above my regular bi weekly pay check.
I have come to work in the morning and found e-mails from students asking questions after even I had already gone to bed. So you're right, they seem to think we're like one of those old fashioned homework help hotlines they had when I was in school. [Reply]
I’d have to see this last one naked to accurately judge her guilt or innocence. There’s just not enough evidence to render a verdict with her clothes on. [Reply]
Originally Posted by scho63:
First time we have seen the second photo of her and she is less guilty with a nice rack.
Originally Posted by JohnnyHammersticks:
I’d have to see this last one naked to accurately judge her guilt or innocence. There’s just not enough evidence to render a verdict with her clothes on.
She's hiding those big tits with a baggy shirt at school. Big mystery for the boys in school getting older who know she's only 26. [Reply]
There's a little quote in there that might be missed: "the boy told the court that they went no further than oral so that he could stay pure". :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by Garcia Bronco:
I'll give you a key one:
Academics first.
Activities/Athletics second.
At a school with 3,400+ Open enrollment starts around 3-4 hundred. Many of these kids coming out of district/out of state to a school ranked in top 20 nationwide for football, boys & girls state track & field state champions, etc. If athletics wasn’t available would these kids be in school at all? Nope. Ask any AD. The visual and performing arts same. Even a small scholarship earned to ANY college is going to keep some in high school. Unfortunately these are facts for some. [Reply]
There needs to be a major shift in education on so many levels.
Absolutely.
And the biggest thing with private schools, of any flavor or belief, is expectations. We were constantly told that we would win, or get better grades, or have success was that we worked harder and did more.
The lower achieving kids don't need standards lower - they need them raised - and as they start to meet some of them they gain confidence. Perhaps you don't make the seals but you don't want to be the first to ring that bell and tap out. You just want to do better and that sticks with you. [Reply]
And the biggest thing with private schools, of any flavor or belief, is expectations. We were constantly told that we would win, or get better grades, or have success was that we worked harder and did more.
The lower achieving kids don't need standards lower - they need them raised - and as they start to meet some of them they gain confidence. Perhaps you don't make the seals but you don't want to be the first to ring that bell and tap out. You just want to do better and that sticks with you.
Originally Posted by RockChalk:
There's a little quote in there that might be missed: "the boy told the court that they went no further than oral so that he could stay pure". :-)
In that case it comes down to how well she gives head to determine whether she's guilty or not. :-) But right now the outcome looks favorable. [Reply]