I'm not luv, in any case. While I do see myself as a 2 or a 3 on the looks chart, maybe a 4 if the poor old girl left her thick glasses at home, I also realize that doesn't matter a whole lot in the overall scheme of things. I have other qualities.
When did I ever say looks are all that mattered? I have a ton to offer. Do you people mind if I work on the package it's in? Geez. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
When did I ever say looks are all that mattered? I have a ton to offer. Do you people mind if I work on the package it's in? Geez.
Oh, you didn't say that, but I think it's safe to say that you are concerned with your looks. Whereas I know I'm not much to look at, and losing all the weight in the world isn't going to change that a bit. And that's fine, doesn't really bother me at all. People either take me as I am or they don't, it's not something I've ever lost any sleep over, and it's not why I've chosen to be single.
Originally Posted by luv:
That's basically only true here in the buckle of the friggin' bible belt.
That doesn't exactly help my obvious self-esteem issues though.
Yeah, I tried to come up with a more sensitive way of saying that. Thought throwing in some humor might dampen the blow a little. Sorry. It was a general statment, not one directed at you specifically. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Dave Lane:
Its stickied on the front page. Shawnee Mission South Sat and Sun...
oh, I thought you meant flag football with a group of hot 20 year old women, maybe on a college campus somewhere, followed by jello-shots and a lingerie pillow fight. nevermind. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Oh, you didn't say that, but I think it's safe to say that you are concerned with your looks. Whereas I know I'm not much to look at, and losing all the weight in the world isn't going to change that a bit. And that's fine, doesn't really bother me at all. People either take me as I am or they don't, it's not something I've ever lost any sleep over, and it's not why I've chosen to be single.Yeah, I tried to come up with a more sensitive way of saying that. Thought throwing in some humor might dampen the blow a little. Sorry. It was a general statment, not one directed at you specifically.
Eh, I shouldn't post when I'm not in a good mood. I don't take things as lightly as I would otherwise. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Don't sweat it, I probably shouldn't have posted it, with what-all you went through today. There's a reason I'm not known for my tact.
No biggy. Seriously.
I'm guessing none of the information I've taken in today is a big deal. I mean that thread is entertaining now that it's all about strip clubs and pole dancers, right? [Reply]
I'm guessing none of the information I've taken in today is a big deal. I mean that thread is entertaining now that it's all about strip clubs and pole dancers, right?
Luv, I never said it wasn't a big deal, I was just trying to let you know it's manageable and it's way better then some of the alternatives. And I never meant to assume you a prude, but you have self claimed yourself to be somewhat "sheltered". I'm sorry if I've managed to hurt your feelings. I really am. [Reply]