Originally Posted by luv:
How do you know what type of man I prefer? Buddha reminds me of Moooo, and that doesn't work for him.
I think a lot of people on here would be suprised at what I like and don't like, and what I'm willing to try. I'm open about a lot of stupid stuff on here, but only certain people ever need to know that about me.
I didn't like mooo on here. And I certainly adored Brian... It was just a guess. [Reply]
Originally Posted by The Buddha:
YEAH! So then when they come up and are all like, "We should date." It messes me up. Cause then I do try to hang out with them, and I freak them out (somehow), and then they go all cold.
Whatever.
Just a guess: you're probably a little needy and too open too quickly. It's one thing to feel a desire to nurture someone you care about, it's another to have yourself turned into a therapist. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Just a guess: you're probably a little needy and too open too quickly. It's one thing to feel a desire to nurture someone you care about, it's another to have yourself turned into a therapist.
Well, at least I won't have to worry about women with the personality I have then...lol :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by Katipan:
I didn't like mooo on here. And I certainly adored Brian... It was just a guess.
Eh, I have my reasons for not adoring Brian.
I need to get rid of this need to feel needed. It turns me into the mom type. So not a good thing. Past relationships haven't been 100% the other person's fault. [Reply]
Originally Posted by The Buddha:
Why DON'T you like these certain people? You seem very opinionated over people that are just online."
I don't like or dislike anyone on here...
He was an idiot.
I believe I called him a word I wont use anymore cuz of Fax.
Online or in real life, you can be an idiot.
Most of the people I give a damn about on here are people that I can imagine being somewhat similar to how they are in real life. The people that I believe are just personas I treat with humor and a grain of salt.
You are neither of those. Which is why the odds of you and I making out are slim. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Eh, I have my reasons for not adoring Brian.
I need to get rid of this need to feel needed. It turns me into the mom type. So not a good thing. Past relationships haven't been 100% the other person's fault.
Agreed!
I tolllllld Dane that I thought you'd have fun with the kind of guy people would probably think *I* wanted. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
You probably don't even know what you need, not completely. ****ing hard thing to figure out.Well that's not asking for much.
lmao
Dude its so easy especially for Mer its not even funny. And shes 100% right its what she is looking for. A man to stand up to her when the need arises.
She, like most women, look for the following in a man:
Intellect
Humor
Looks
Masculine qualities
Sense of Adventure and Fun
And really some slide looks to the bottom of the list. If Mer didn't have a intellectual guy that also was masculine enough to stand up to her and dish it out as fast as she spit it out, she would loose respect for that "nice guy" Lets call him Keg for some odd reason and pretty soon would start to really rip him and attempt to emasculate him to the point of total submission to see if he would finally develop a backbone and become a dominant "protector" for her. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
Just a guess: you're probably a little needy and too open too quickly. It's one thing to feel a desire to nurture someone you care about, it's another to have yourself turned into a therapist.
Originally Posted by The Buddha:
Why DON'T you like these certain people? You seem very opinionated over people that are just online."
Sometimes people just rub you the wrong way.
Even online. There's been a few people on this site that I've utterly despised over the years, although there are a lot more I consider friends.
This bulletin board is a little unusual in that it's much more of a community than you usually find online, although it's less like that now than it was several years back. [Reply]