I have a date. - Page 332

Originally Posted by Katipan:
Looks awful in a list, doesn't it.

But anything else, probably wouldn't work. I suppose I could alter me... But that seems stupid.

Its not your fault. You're just a girl.
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Originally Posted by Katipan:
Looks awful in a list, doesn't it.

But anything else, probably wouldn't work. I suppose I could alter me... But that seems stupid.

If you like you, there's no reason to change.
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Originally Posted by The Buddha:
Its not your fault. You're just a girl.

Which would be my father's fault.
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Originally Posted by Katipan:
Which would be my father's fault.

Did you lack a strong mother figure in your early days? Cause I lacked a strong father figure.

That's why I seem so strange, I think.
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Originally Posted by keg in kc:
If you like you, there's no reason to change.

I don't like me. But I'm making progress.

If you all would have seen me two years ago... I was worse. I was so bad off I wouldn't even brush my teeth or shower or anything.

I think women are a bit high up on the level of shit I gotta work on, but then they show up and want to hang out, and totally f*ck with me.
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Originally Posted by The Buddha:
So how do I become perfect or close to it?

Don't even try to strive for perfection or anything close. You don't have to. Accept your faults. Don't shy away from them in the least. Don't change your behavior because you think you have to. That's what makes you apprehensive. That's what negates your confidence.

You should have the attitude that you're already perfect....
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Originally Posted by KC Fish:
Don't even try to strive for perfection or anything close. You don't have to. Accept your faults. Don't shy away from them in the least. Don't change your behavior because you think you have to. That's what makes you apprehensive. That's what negates your confidence.

I think if you knew me... you'd think I needed to be a bit better... LOL

I lack social skills...lol

:-)
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Originally Posted by The Buddha:
Did you lack a strong mother figure in your early days? Cause I lacked a strong father figure.

That's why I seem so strange, I think.

No. Why in the world are you searching for common ground with me?

EDIT: Oh dear god. The blaming my father thing was in reference to MEN supplying that necessary chromosome.
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Originally Posted by Katipan:
That wasn't harsh to Luv! It was in reference to us having very dissimilar tastes in men. All evidence to the contrary.

How do you know what type of man I prefer? Buddha reminds me of Moooo, and that doesn't work for him.

I think a lot of people on here would be suprised at what I like and don't like, and what I'm willing to try. I'm open about a lot of stupid stuff on here, but only certain people ever need to know that about me.
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Originally Posted by Katipan:
No. Why in the world are you searching for common ground with me?

Isn't that what people do when they're trying to socially interact with others?
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Originally Posted by The Buddha:
I don't like me. But I'm making progress.

If you all would have seen me two years ago... I was worse. I was so bad off I wouldn't even brush my teeth or shower or anything.

I think women are a bit high up on the level of shit I gotta work on, but then they show up and want to hang out, and totally f*ck with me.

You need to get yourself straight, or at least a little more straight, before you worry about how somebody else fits into the picture. That's my opinion, at least.

(I have some experience with depression and anxiety, so I'm not completely oblivious to the psychological ramifications of relationships when you're not in a good place)
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Originally Posted by keg in kc:
You need to get yourself straight, or at least a little more straight, before you worry about how somebody else fits into the picture. That's my opinion, at least.

(I have some experience with depression and anxiety, so I'm not completely oblivious to the psychological ramifications of relationships when you're not in a good place)

YEAH! So then when they come up and are all like, "We should date." It messes me up. Cause then I do try to hang out with them, and I freak them out (somehow), and then they go all cold.

Whatever.
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What sucks is when you think you're ready, but you're not.
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Originally Posted by Katipan:
No. Why in the world are you searching for common ground with me?
EDIT: Oh dear god. The blaming my father thing was in reference to MEN supplying that necessary chromosome.

Holy shit, that was a blow to the nards with a spiked shoe. Be nice Katipan, he's a sensitive guy.
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Originally Posted by raybec 4:
Holy shit, that was a blow to the nards with a spiked shoe. Be nice Katipan, he's a sensitive guy.

Its not her job to be nice to me. If I didn't want her to lash out, I shouldn't try and open up.
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