Originally Posted by The Buddha:
I can understand why... The longer you go on a dry spell, the more you start to think somethings wrong with you.
Some girls are just flat out easy. But at the same time these girls almost ALWAYS go for the "other" guy. What I'd like to know (and Claythan too, I'm guessing) is what these other guys got that makes women go, "I'd love to have a one night stand with him!" Cause we've all been around drunk girls who flirt with us, but at the end of the night... they leave with the other guy in the group.
Best of luck to Claythan. I know its some advice from someone who's severely f*cked up socially, but life is only what you make it. If you wish you could get out of the house more, then just do. If you wish you had the energy to start running, just start running anyway. You gotta just do, and the rest will come.
The 'other guy' doesn't think. He acts. If he misses out on one woman, he moves on to the next without dwelling on why. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
The 'other guy' doesn't think. He acts. If he misses out on one woman, he moves on to the next without dwelling on why.
So I just need to punch a few girls out to work my way up in line? [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
The 'other guy' doesn't think. He acts. If he misses out on one woman, he moves on to the next without dwelling on why.
Thanks. I think I'm done trying for a while. You gotta be this but not that, and its too hard to pretend.
You gotta be confident
You can't think too much
You can't hang around her too much
You gotta pretend like you don't want her.
So... Like I said to the girl at work. If you want me, come get me. Otherwise, screw it. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
The 'other guy' doesn't think. He acts. If he misses out on one woman, he moves on to the next without dwelling on why.
Thanks. I think I'm done trying for a while. You gotta be this but not that, and its too hard to pretend.
You gotta be confident
You can't think too much
You can't be too clingy
You gotta pretend like you don't want her.
So... Like I said to the girl at work. If you want me, come get me. Otherwise, screw it. [Reply]
Fear is normal. We're all afraid of things at some point.
I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do anything (my posts are evidence I'm not the best at this stuff). I'm just saying that you shouldn't let the fear aspect dictate your actions. [Reply]
Originally Posted by keg in kc:
You're a chick, it's easy for you. Just show up and flash your boobs.
While my boobs are very nice, I have a few other curves to get rid of before I feel comfortable doing that. And once I do have the body for it, it will take a lot of alcohol. [Reply]