So there is this chick I met at a house party. Friend of the girl who invited me. So we, I guess, in my opinion, enjoyed each other's company strictly through conversation. So she leaves and gives me a hug and tells me she wants to see me again, or hopes she sees me again. Then friends me on Facebook, either that night or the next day since I only checked it that next day. So anyway, I knew this halfway through that night, she is married. She just invited me to trivia with her husband tonight. But what she did was she made a wall post and tagged my friend who had the house party, another girl who was at the house party as well, me, and my friend who is a guy. So she tagged 2 girls and 2 guys. I'm certain I'd be the only one to go as the 2 girls are doing something else and the other dude has 2 small children and one on the way and doesn't have time. Now unfortunately I am attracted to this woman and I just honestly don't feel comfortable going since I'll know no one but the married chick I just met. Then having to meet the husband would be very uncomfortable for me. I just feel that if I was the husband, and out of the people she invited, I was the only one to show up, that would be weird. I just want to confirm that I am right not to go. Plus I'm black, so...thoughts?
Originally Posted by Setsuna:
So there is this chick I met at a house party. Friend of the girl who invited me. So we, I guess, in my opinion, enjoyed each other's company strictly through conversation. So she leaves and gives me a hug and tells me she wants to see me again, or hopes she sees me again. Then friends me on Facebook, either that night or the next day since I only checked it that next day. So anyway, I knew this halfway through that night, she is married. She just invited me to trivia with her husband tonight. But what she did was she made a wall post and tagged my friend who had the house party, another girl who was at the house party as well, me, and my friend who is a guy. So she tagged 2 girls and 2 guys. I'm certain I'd be the only one to go as the 2 girls are doing something else and the other dude has 2 small children and one on the way and doesn't have time. Now unfortunately I am attracted to this woman and I just honestly don't feel comfortable going since I'll know no one but the married chick I just met. Then having to meet the husband would be very uncomfortable for me. I just feel that if I was the husband, and out of the people she invited, I was the only one to show up, that would be weird. I just want to confirm that I am right not to go. Plus I'm black, so...thoughts?
First off, congratulations on being black. Not many can claim that publicly on a board for sports teams in the state of Missouri without being banned immediately.
And yes you are correct, no way in hell would I touch that situation with a 10 ft pole. Doesn't matter how attracted you are to her and given the fact that you aren't showing up with some other friends, would leave the very real possibility of it being just you, her and her husband. Yikes!
Originally Posted by lewdog:
First off, congratulations on being black. Not many can claim that publicly on a board for sports teams in the state of Missouri without being banned immediately.
And yes you are correct, no way in hell would I touch that situation with a 10 ft pole. Doesn't matter how attracted you are to her and given the fact that you aren't showing up with some other friends, would leave the very real possibility of it being just you, her and her husband. Yikes!
EXACTLY! Thanks man. I just needed another confirmation on the situation.
:-) I WAS banned then I threatened them with the Black Panthers and they lifted it within a half hour.
