None of these words of wisdom mean shit right now, I know. But please listen to the concern for your safety. Cheaters always come out on the short end anyway and ex's, hers and yours, are ex's for a reason. [Reply]
Originally Posted by BucEyedPea:
Feel bad for ya'. A breakup is very painful. But 6 years together and have a child? You shoulda' married her. JMO but don't have all details.
So sorry to hear this, tribe. Hang in there, man. I know it sounds stupid now, but somehow/someway things will work out for you. Just gotta go slow for a while and stay strong. Good luck, and remember, CP is here for you. Take care. [Reply]
Originally Posted by beach tribe:
Haven't had my heart broken since my HS sweatheart.
I left the earth scorched, beaten and bloody behind me.
It didn't help anything.........
Heartbreak makes the man, whether it's the career or the woman.
You'll bounce back strong, of that I have no doubt.
The real issue is now, today. Call all of your bro's and if they're unavailable, continue chatting here.
Talking this shit out is more than half the battle. You know that you have a lot to say, so just say it.
If you can't say it here, fire up your PC or Mac or Device and start typing away so that you say it.
Say it, Brotha, say it. Let it all out.
You may not even remember what you typed in the morning but you'll get a good night's rest and peace of mind by just letting it all out in a productive yet passive way.
Sorry to hear bud. From my experience things never get better after someone cheats. Rip it off like a band aid. I know it's tougher when a child is involved. Just IMHO from what little I know. [Reply]
Don't do anything foolish and /or make any rash decisions. Your emotions are running high. Try and step away from the situation and think but don't obsess. Deal with what hurts you the most and you will be stronger for it and better able to deal with things - one way or the other. I'd lean towards the other... [Reply]