Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP:
If a guy doesn't ask you out again within 24hrs he's not that interested in you. A confident girl with spine & brains wont wait around for a guy who follows the "4 day rule". Don't be a doormat. A girl deserves a guy who's interested.
I agree with this.
If he's playing some bullshit 48/72/96 hour game, though, it also means he's immature.
The 4 day rule is mainly because of the games girls play not guys. Your damned if you do damned if you dont it seems. Those games are crap that both genders play and I never really understood it. Though after 20 you would think those games would stop. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
You seem to know me better than I know myself. I give.
Anyway, I did talk to him, and we're friends. He let me down easy. Nice guy. I'm just not for him.
No big deal.....keep moving on in your life. You'll find a guy who's really into you. It happens when you're not looking for it. It happened to me...and now I'm engaged.
Originally Posted by pestilenceaf23:
No big deal.....keep moving on in your life. You'll find a guy who's really into you. It happens when you're not looking for it. It happened to me...and now I'm engaged.
Tell us the story of how you ran assbackwards into love. [Reply]
Originally Posted by dirk digler:
Sorry to hear that Luv. You will find someone just give it time and don't try to rush it.
Definitely not rushing it. He contacted me first originally, or I'd have never talked to him. I don't plan on contacting anyone. I'm just going to focus on losing weight, being okay with myself, and going through the daily grind. Those are all the things within my control. I'm bummed, sure. Super cool guy. Won't be the last nice guy I meet, I'm sure. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Definitely not rushing it. He contacted me first originally, or I'd have never talked to him. I don't plan on contacting anyone. I'm just going to focus on losing weight, being okay with myself, and going through the daily grind. Those are all the things within my control. I'm bummed, sure. Super cool guy. Won't be the last nice guy I meet, I'm sure.
That is a great attitude to have because if you don't like yourself another person probably won't like you either.
Just curious do you have any guys that you are interested that you work with? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
Tell us the story of how you ran assbackwards into love.
It's easy......I wasn't really looking and my fiance ended up finding me. We went out on our first date (I wasn't expecting anything) and we really hit it off. Started hanging out more and more.....started crashing at her place....you know how the story ends. [Reply]