Originally Posted by Baby Lee:
I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.
Originally Posted by Baby Lee:
I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.
All chicks are crazy. You can't deduct it down to saying it's because they're heavy. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
All chicks are crazy. You can't deduct it down to saying it's because they're heavy.
I'm not saying that, it's just that, for me, its an attribute that brings up the memory of those psychos. Could as easily have been red hair or big boobs or acid washed jeans. And it's merely an impediment, not a deal killer. [Reply]
Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP:
That doesn't make any sense and this is a message board filled with discussion including critique of anything and everything.
Someone shows a picture of their wife. Are you going to tell the dude what a dog you think she is? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Someone shows a picture of their wife. Are you going to tell the dude what a dog you think she is?
Depends on the context, but generally not - that would be rude. However, the manner in which the pictures are posted and presented on here (ie. look at this slut I can bang) I don't feel bad about it at all. [Reply]
Originally Posted by JOhn:
OK, that is true.........
BUT the good ones shouldn't be shallow about that.
(I'm not including myself it that, as I am a pig)
Please, looks are the first thing EVERYONE(99.9%) sees in a person.. It goes from there.. They either like your look or do not.. If they are not physically attracted at first that is not the end.. Especially more so for women.. They could end up thinking you are funny or have a great personality.. Or that you are rich.. But looks matter first when two people meet..
Every person on this planet is shallow in this sense, denying it means lying to yourself because you know it is wrong.. But guess what, we all do it.. [Reply]
Originally Posted by JOhn:
I agree with you to a point. But I know that looks used to be #1 but that doesn't work for a solid relationship (see both my ex's). Now it's personality #1 and as long as they take care of themselves no matter what their size then who cares?
So looks are what made you like them in the first place, but having a great personality is what put the person over?? Seems to me looks were the first thing you saw??
You just took another step, but looks were still important?? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Baby Lee:
I don't even know if I'm disposed to being attracted to heavier girls because of the baggage I've taken on from a couple of crazy ones. More than once I've dated a girl whose heavier 'good friend' decided out of the blue that my girlfriend was not worthy of me as they were in fact my one true love, and set about making both [my and my GF's] our lives a living hell.
I've been involved with a bigger girl or two, and it usually ends with me waking up one morning thinking "wtf am i doing with this girl?" Being a heavier guy with not much in the way of prospects, I realize I'm settling, and that's the end of it.
'course, if that sounds shallow to anybody, well, they're all various shades of crazy, too. So take your pick as to why I finally wake up and get the hell out. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Valiant:
Please, looks are the first thing EVERYONE(99.9%) sees in a person.. It goes from there.. They either like your look or do not.. If they are not physically attracted at first that is not the end.. Especially more so for women.. They could end up thinking you are funny or have a great personality.. Or that you are rich.. But looks matter first when two people meet..
Every person on this planet is shallow in this sense, denying it means lying to yourself because you know it is wrong.. But guess what, we all do it..
I don't think looks (as in physical appearance) matter as much as first impressions do. I've been attracted to someone without knowing what they looked like. I've seen what I'd guess the world would classify as a gorgeous man and felt nothing but nauseous. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Katipan:
I don't think looks (as in physical appearance) matter as much as first impressions do. I've been attracted to someone without knowing what they looked like. I've seen what I'd guess the world would classify as a gorgeous man and felt nothing but nauseous.
