Originally Posted by beer me:
Don't ask a man to date you IF you lose weight... good lord girl. If he likes who you are and he isn't completely shallow it shouldn't matter.
i would not date a girl who asks that question. but i have a pet peeve about low self esteem, some people can deal with it, I'm not one.
if the guy won't date you, don't change yourself to do it, because unless you totally change your lifestyle the weight will be back eventually and he wont be interested. And if he wasn't interested before he's superficial anyway, and there's always going to be someone prettier come along for a person like that
find someone who is a quality person instead of... that. [Reply]
Originally Posted by triple:
i would not date a girl who asks that question. but i have a pet peeve about low self esteem, some people can deal with it, I'm not one.
if the guy won't date you, don't change yourself to do it, because unless you totally change your lifestyle the weight will be back eventually and he wont be interested. And if he wasn't interested before he's superficial anyway, and there's always going to be someone prettier come along for a person like that
find someone who is a quality person instead of... that.
Eh. He's a Dallas fan anyway. It would never work. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Well. I just got my first rejection of the new year. I have a friend who i get along great with. He knows I'm going to try to lose a lot of weight. I asked him if he would consider dating me if I lost the weight. He said that he prefered short blondes, so no. Eh. He took it as a hypothetical, which I guess it was. I would definitely date him if he wanted to, so it stung a little to know I'll never stand a chance. Oh well. I've decided that I do want to start dating again. If nothing, just to get out and do stuff and meet new people. However, I'm not going to persue anything until after I lose the weight. That will give me some extra motivation. Hopefully, I can find someone who actually prefers brunettes. :-)
When you dump the weight you could try dyeing your hair. Might look good. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
When you dump the weight you could try dyeing your hair. Might look good.
I used to highlight my own hair. Wehenever the roots would grow out, I'd dye it again. I got to the point where I had a two tone ponytail. Blonde on top, and dark underneath. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Well. I just got my first rejection of the new year. I have a friend who i get along great with. He knows I'm going to try to lose a lot of weight. I asked him if he would consider dating me if I lost the weight. He said that he prefered short blondes, so no. Eh. He took it as a hypothetical, which I guess it was. I would definitely date him if he wanted to, so it stung a little to know I'll never stand a chance. Oh well. I've decided that I do want to start dating again. If nothing, just to get out and do stuff and meet new people. However, I'm not going to persue anything until after I lose the weight. That will give me some extra motivation. Hopefully, I can find someone who actually prefers brunettes. :-)
Good lord why would you do that? You put him in an awkward position as well and he probably won't date you cause your his pal, it's usually how it works, but you hear more about the friends bs from guys. You could always ask him if he wants to be friends with benefits. Goodluck losing the weight but you need to get rid of the low self esteem more. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Well. I just got my first rejection of the new year. I have a friend who i get along great with. He knows I'm going to try to lose a lot of weight. I asked him if he would consider dating me if I lost the weight. He said that he prefered short blondes, so no. Eh. He took it as a hypothetical, which I guess it was. I would definitely date him if he wanted to, so it stung a little to know I'll never stand a chance. Oh well. I've decided that I do want to start dating again. If nothing, just to get out and do stuff and meet new people. However, I'm not going to persue anything until after I lose the weight. That will give me some extra motivation. Hopefully, I can find someone who actually prefers brunettes. :-)
No guy would come out and say that he would date. Really that isnt in the man code. [Reply]
To answer some questions - Houston traffic sucks. Glad I didnt have to drive. Second Houston has some easy easy chicks, so no more excues GoChiefs get your ass out in the town and score some. It would have been real easy to get laid, I turned two chicks down just bc I didnt want to go to their place. In a different city its just weird to end up somewhere you have no clue where you are. I know you dont like the bar scene, try the malls. Lots of chicks there and its not as threating as the bar scene. [Reply]
Originally Posted by ChiefsCountry:
Just talked and danced with them, then said I had to leave with my friend bc I had a flight in the morning which I didnt.
This is the greatest opener in the history of man:
Originally Posted by her profile:
i currently working as a receptionist. on weekends i like to eat hot dogs with my friends. i enjoy starbucks and jamba juice.
Originally Posted by opener: I have some hot dogs.
I can bring them over some weekend. Do you like them boiled, fried or barbecued?
