Originally Posted by ROYC75:
It's going to help, but once you put your hands-on someone, you're guilty.
He should have just walked out and called the police and let them handle it.
100% agree. But this is a lot better than just plain old choking her. That could be straight up jail time nevermind the NFL punishment. If this story holds, he likely doesn't go to jail but is suspended a few games. He's still stupid as fuck for that though. Just take pictures of what she did, call the police and lock yourself in a room or go outside until they come. [Reply]
I'm not defending his actions, but these are emotionally charged situations. All this talk of being calm, and walking away, and calling the cops is easy in hindsight.
Shit I have moments with my kid that I instantly wish I could take back. All I'm saying is its easier said than done. [Reply]
If you ever had a woman freak out and attack you, biting and clawing, it's not fun. I was able to get on top of her and use my 140lb weight advantage (which Xavier wouldn't have) to hold her down until she calmed down. She still damn near launched me across the room with a leg press. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Hoover:
I'm not defending his actions, but these are emotionally charged situations. All this talk of being calm, and walking away, and calling the cops is easy in hindsight.
Shit I have moments with my kid that I instantly wish I could take back. All I'm saying is its easier said than done.
Yup. My brother was in a similar situation with a girl he was planning to propose to and found out she was cheating.
He’s always been a calm man but in that moment he turned into an emotional broken wreck and punched several holes in the wall and wanted to ruin that bitches life in any non-physical way possible.
The best way to get revenge on cheaters is to let the entire world know so they have to face the embarrassment, which is likely why Xavier’s lawyers explicitly stated infidelity. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Hoover:
I'm not defending his actions, but these are emotionally charged situations. All this talk of being calm, and walking away, and calling the cops is easy in hindsight.
Shit I have moments with my kid that I instantly wish I could take back. All I'm saying is its easier said than done.
I don't really find resisting the urge to strangle somebody "easier said than done". In fact at no time has it ever entered my mind to do in my entire life no matter how angry I was. It's been really, REALLY easy to not do. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Hoover:
I'm not defending his actions, but these are emotionally charged situations. All this talk of being calm, and walking away, and calling the cops is easy in hindsight.
Shit I have moments with my kid that I instantly wish I could take back. All I'm saying is its easier said than done.
100% agree. Everyone with their perfect plan of how he should have handled it while sitting behind their computer are funny. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Bwana:
NEVER EVER stick it in crazy.
Bro samething happened to me with my Puerto Rican ex on our trip to Jamaica. We on Day 3 there on the damn boat and for watever reason we wake up and she wanna start crying talkin about no body ever gave a damn about her in her past and how she trys to fuck with family. I'm like man wtf!!! It caused us to get into argument and I knew once I hit the mainland we was done. I had had enough!! [Reply]
Originally Posted by Titty Meat:
Bro samething happened to me with my Puerto Rican ex on our trip to Jamaica. We on Day 3 there on the damn boat and for watever reason we wake up and she wanna start crying talkin about no body ever gave a damn about her in her past and how she trys to **** with family. I'm like man wtf!!! It caused us to get into argument and I knew once I hit the mainland we was done. I had had enough!!
Nothing worse than being stuck with someone on a trip from hell where you can't escape.
It's like being trapped in the canoe on a float trip. If there's any stress in the relationship, that will end it. [Reply]
Originally Posted by DynastyChiefs:
I do not buy that she scratched Xavier's face since I do not see scratches on his face in his mugshot
Those mug shots were taken on one of those cameras from the 1920s where you need to sit still for 12 minutes for the exposure. The camera lens was made from a slice of potato.
Originally Posted by JohnnyHammersticks:
As a former Detective and Supreme Court Justice, I'm going to examine the facts before I render a decision on Xavier's case.
The first thing I'm going to need is more video of Worthy's mom bending over in her short jean shorts.
This is the sort of rational, level headed judicial analysis we don’t see often enough. Kudos to you sir! [Reply]