Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?
My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.
I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.
I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
Here's a crazy concept...try to stay with me here:
Maybe because...I love my wife! There! I said it!
If I was an outcast before, I can imagine how weird I must seem after an outlandish statement like that!
Or perhaps you need someone around to make feel as miserable as you? It was a friend, I really don’t give a fly **** whether you believe it or not, everyone but you needs friends. One can not live a lonely life with just one other person in it. Get over it, move on, or get the **** out. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Donger:
You love your wife, but have issues with her being flirtatious on a BB.
So, you start a thread on a BB about being irritated with your wife's being flirtatious on a BB.
Sorry, but you two are either full-of-sh*t and are just doing this for some sort of perverse fun, or you two have some issues that perhaps would be better dealt with offline.
I don't think he's as annoyed by his wife as he is by all the Planet horndogs who go out of their way to Rep or cyberchivalry anyone that they suspect of being female when most of them would shit if their wives knew they were behaving thusly. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Donger:
You love your wife, but have issues with her being flirtatious on a BB.
So, you start a thread on a BB about being irritated with your wife's being flirtatious on a BB.
Sorry, but you two are either full-of-sh*t and are just doing this for some sort of perverse fun, or you two have some issues that perhaps would be better dealt with offline.
I know this thread has many replies, but at some point I did post that I wasn't referring to anything that has ever been posted on Chiefsplanet. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Clint in Wichita:
I know this thread has many replies, but at some point I did post that I wasn't referring to anything that has ever been posted on Chiefsplanet.
Originally Posted by RedNFeisty:
Or perhaps you need someone around to make feel as miserable as you? It was a friend, I really don’t give a fly **** whether you believe it or not, everyone but you needs friends. One can not live a lonely life with just one other person in it. Get over it, move on, or get the **** out.
I had a guy that liked to control every aspect of my life. Down to who i talked to or associated with. All he wanted was the perfect little hostess for his friends. The idea that I would need something else fulfilling in my life was alien to him.
