This. Times eleventy billion.
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I will do this, but I honestly don't think it will get nasty

We still care very much about each other.

She's my best friend. She really is.

Shit. This is that part that hurts.

Back to work.
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I've got nothing too good to say Tribe. I've been on this rock for 49 years, and if there is one constant, it is that cheaters are cheaters forever. You have to be wired a certain way to be able to do that to someone that you love more than yourself.

Yeah, second chances have their place. You know, for stupid kids that steal someone elses shit, or someone that gets busted for smoking dope or something. But cheaters? They are a different kind of fucked up. No remorse unless they get caught. They cheat over and over. Like I said, it's how they are wired. No sense of accountability, and very selfish.

Aside from dealings with your kid, I wouldn't give this bitch the time of day. Now, or ever. if the cooch was on fire, I wouldn't piss on it.
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"The world breaks everyone, and afterward some are strong at the broken places.

But those it does not break, it kills."

You've got all the advice you're ever going to need. I just figured a little Hemingway couldn't hurt.
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If you get her to come back. Thats when you will realize you don't want her anymore. She's tainted.
I give it no more then six months, before you wake up and realize
NO WAY IN HELL A DRUG ADDICTED FELON IS RAISING OR LIVING WITH MY SON!

FTR. My X was and still is hot as hell. She's a cross between Bo Derrick & Kate Middleton. With steel blue eyes. Beauty is only skin deep.
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My internal alarms went off. I asked her what was up....and she told me.
She didn't lie. She was straight with me.

Being a hurt ass bitch is unattractive, no matter how I feel inside.
Making her miserable or feel the pain I feel won't create anything positive.

Hate
Hurt
rage
wrath

All ingredients for a perpetual shit sandwich that everyone has to take a bite of.

Her and her twin sister call me a master manipulator.
Now I know that they are giving me way too much credit as I'm no mastermind.

I've just learned that you can much more easily get what you want with a smile and kindness.

I'm keeping the big picture in view.
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I don't want her back.
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Good for you. It took a 48hour reset with my X to figure this part out.
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But she made a chioice..

If she loves him more...Why should I stand in the way of that?


LiveSteam, everything I've said hinges on him being stand-up.

Otherwise he will be put down.

I'm right with you on the time table. 6 months tops.

Here comes the part I will need help with, though.
At this very moment, we are being extra nice to each other.
It will be very hard to resist her...erm..charms ..if she decides to turn it on.
I hope I'm as I'm strong in that area, cause pussy power is real.
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She just got out of the shower and is walkin around in her panties right now.

I work at home she goes in at 6.

You guys wanna see a pic?









I'm fucking with you.

It will never happen.
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:-)
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Great to see how you are handling the immediate emotions...you are handling it better than most do.

But I will reiterate what I posted.....get an Attorney and seek out a Counselor. You 2 might do well for a while but times and people change. And even if nothing goes wrong and you remain friends, there will still be moments of friction over who is making the decisions on your son's welfare.

If you both want to remain friends, then spell out responsibilities legally....leave nothing to chance. That way there are no arguments about who handles what.

And I won't even begin to mention all the fun you will have once your child becomes 18....
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Nice

Thanks.
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Just keep it in the back of your mind, that she destroyed us & our family. Its hard not to try again. And the hotter they are the harder it is for men to walk away.We think with the wrong head sometimes.
If you are anything like me? You'll fuck her again & right in the middle of pounding her bottom you'll get this urge to put your hands around her throat & squeeze until her eyes pop out of her eye sockets. That's when you will know it is over for good & time to lawyer up and go get my son.
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I had an ex playing me for quite some time. Him or me, back and forth.

All it took was the last time she blew me and was gagging as I got up, put my pants on, and left. Left it as that.
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