The big anti-hijack thread.....
Talk about anything, but if this works than we don't have to keep looking around all the threads to see who is still on tonight, and every night, or even every day! Talk about the chiefs, talk about tomorrow, talk about football, politics or even how to do flooring and the applicable budget. What you're drinking, how hard it is to sleep, etc. Every thing is acceptable in this thread.....
It's been 5 days since I've talked to her and I don't even know what fucking state she is in. I've sent her 1 text each of the last 2 days with no response. I'm starting to feel worried if she's okay or not.
It's been 5 days since I've talked to her and I don't even know what fucking state she is in. I've sent her 1 text each of the last 2 days with no response. I'm starting to feel worried if she's okay or not.
You should be angry, not worried... be all like "Fuck that bitch not returning my texts" then go out and bang some whores.
Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP:
You should be angry, not worried... be all like "Fuck that bitch not returning my texts" then go out and bang some whores.
So anyway, I felt like there was something between us a couple weeks ago. I didn't say anything, but I just knew.
Tonight I hung out with her again. She was with her bf too. When her bf got away from us she asked something to the effect of, "you like me don't you? If I didn't have a bf you would go after me?" I told her yes, but I like your bf too, so I won't. The night rolled on and it became more clear that there was an undeniable attraction between us.
Sorry, I was posting from my iPod and it was becoming tedious, so I just turned on my computer.
Anyhow...I went out with the girl I've been seeing for a while last week and I asked her where she wanted to go to eat. She told me the restaurant. It just so happens that this chick works at said restaurant, so in my head I was like, "fuck yeah..."
I haven't actually seen either of the girls (the girl I am seeing or this new chick) since then. When I talked to her tonight she said that I was totally awkward so I told her that I was sort of nervous because I like her....
At the end of the night, we both got a ride home from someone since we were too drunk to drive (tonight). Her boyfriend was in the car with us. For some reason he took the front seat, so that left me and his girlfriend in the backseat. On the ride home she was laying on me (I had my arm around her) and she grabbed my hand and we were holding hands the whole way home (with her bf right in the front seat!) Fuck man, I don't want to impose on this dude's chick, but she obviously likes me and I like her.
When we got to my house, she kissed me again and whispered in my ear that if I want to see her that I know where to find her.
Would it be fucked up if I went for her? I know she has a bf, but to be honest with you, and I've never ever felt this way before, I knew I liked her at first sight. I didn't know her at all (I met her about a month ago). I never said anything to her because of her boyfriend, but all of the sudden she brought it up tonight.
I would feel awful going after someone with a boyfriend, but this girl has me wrapped up in her fist!
Let's say I really want to make a move and go after her. Would the right thing for me to do is tell her that I can't until she quits with her current bf or should I just go after it? I've never cheated on anyone and I've never been the person who is being cheated with. I don't know what to do.
Lets say that hypothetically there is this chick I like. And this hypothetical chick has a boyfriend.
Now, hypothetically, would it be wrong if I told her I liked her, you know, to put the ball in her court? I don't want to cheat with anybody, so to say (hypothetically). I don't really know if that is morally wrong to do.
Originally Posted by Buck:
Ehhh, not really in love. I was really drunk when I posted that.
I don't know anything about this chicks boyfriend or how happy she is. As a matter of fact, I barely know her. I've only seen her twice. Both times I just felt something....like I knew that I liked her for some reason. I know that she probably feels the same way because she kissed me last night.
Anyhow she is a pretty, young, petite girl, which is what I really like (who doesn't I guess).
The other girl is the girl I've been seeing for a while. I'm sure you've heard me say something about her. Things are pretty rocky with her.
Originally Posted by Lumpy:
She kissed you? As in a peck, or did she go full porn tongue? If it's the latter then, yes, she has a thing for you, (obviously). However, if it was just a peck, she's one of "those" girls. You know the type, all touchy-feely w/ everyone to make themselves feel like they are in control. I wouldn't get too excited over a peck if I were you.
Maybe what you're feeling is the need to fill a void. Perhaps your rocky relationship is making you yearn for something more... the other chick. Honestly, no matter how you look at this, it's not right to drag your girl along when you're wanting someone instead of her.
Originally Posted by Buck:
She gave me a full on kiss. After about 3.5 seconds, I realized how drunk I was and what I was doing and I sort of moved my face aside and just pecked her on the cheek and went separate ways.
Originally Posted by Buck:
Well she knows nothing about it, so there's that.
We really don't know each other at all. I haven't felt this way about a person I don't know.
Here's what I posted in this thread a couple weeks ago so you don't have to dig back and find it.
well I've always believed a relationship started through cheating will end the same way. I think if she really likes you she'd dump her current bf before starting anything. I would even recommend putting that on the table. If you want a trustworthy relationship it has to start right.
