Hi! I've been gon a long time! I've switched several jobs, got married (a mistake at this point) and lost 56 lbs. Unfortunately, I lost weight mostly through illness. Now I have completely quit booze and it's coming off steadily. Down to 224 from 286. 46 inch waist to 38. I am on top of my illness and things are looking good. Except the marriage.
Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.
The son thing....really weird....how do you handle such a thing? That has to be awkward. Hopefully he doesn't have any resentment toward you.
I only have to accept what's true. Niether one of us was aware. Damn Ancestry.com! LOL. Since, for a change, I am blameless, no resentment towards me. His Mom, obviously HAS to maintain ignorence. [Reply]
Originally Posted by burt:
Hi! I've been gon a long time! I've switched several jobs, got married (a mistake at this point) and lost 56 lbs. Unfortunately, I lost weight mostly through illness. Now I have completely quit booze and it's coming off steadily. Down to 224 from 286. 46 inch waist to 38. I am on top of my illness and things are looking good. Except the marriage.
Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.
Originally Posted by burt:
Yeah, obviously I suck at that.
I'll tell you what's worse than getting married. Falling in love with a married woman and being her lover and her husband finds out and about kills you. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Rasputin:
I'll tell you what's worse than getting married. Falling in love with a married woman and being her lover and her husband finds out and about kills you.
That doesn't sound as bad as being in a crappy marriage unless there is some permanent damage not mentioned. [Reply]
Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.
AMA!
Did you never go into that part of the house when he was growing up? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Rasputin:
I'll tell you what's worse than getting married. Falling in love with a married woman and being her lover and her husband finds out and about kills you.
Originally Posted by wazu:
That doesn't sound as bad as being in a crappy marriage unless there is some permanent damage not mentioned.
Yeah kinda there is. I got PTSD from it. I mean when I about got killed, I was shot at speeding away in my Chevy Taho and glass back window shaddered and I have bullet holes in my Taho. One inches from the top of my head by the visor. This was about three years ago. He was chasing after me in an Escalade. It was fast as fuck and I zig zagged through town but he caught up to me. I drove to the Sherrif office with a shot out tire too. Crazy mother fucking shit. [Reply]