Caught my woman cheating. - Page 2

Ex-Boyfriend.
Crazy history. Never Met him.

Been together 6 years.
Love her Madly.
Have a 4 year old with autism together.

God damn I'm hurting.

Don't want to do anything crazy.
10 years ago he would be in the hospital.
Gotta be smarter/better than that.

Not handling these emotions well....
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Be the man your daughter deserves.

As far as your "woman" is concerned, she doesn't deserve you.
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Damn man sorry to hear this. Don't do anything stupid. Stay strong for the little one.
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Originally Posted by beach tribe:
Ex-Boyfriend.
Crazy history. Never Met him.

Been together 6 years.
Love her Madly.
Have a 4 year old with autism together.

God damn I'm hurting.

Don't want to do anything crazy.
10 years ago he would be in the hospital.
Gotta be smarter/better than that.

Not handling these emotions well....

Dude, I am so sorry.

Just remember, it's not about you, it's about her.

My kids are going to bed in 2 hours. PM me if you're up and want to chat and I'll shoot you my phone number.
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As if shit wasn't hard enough.

Crazy thing is our sex life is Fn awesome.

It's one of those situations like in Casino with DeNiro and Sharon stone and James woods.
I don't fucking get it.

Dude is a fucking troll. POS.

I'll never understand.
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Go hit a slump buster and lawyer up to get custody
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Sucks dude. Don't overdo it, don't drive nowhere, don't do anything regretable.
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Feel bad for ya'. A breakup is very painful. But 6 years together and have a child? You shoulda' married her. JMO but don't have all details.

Go out and run real hard or work out real hard. It will take time. Are you willing to forgive and give her another chance?
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Originally Posted by Pawnmower:
Ugh. I know these words don't mean much...but you are better off knowing this now than later so you can do what you need to do to get away from her. Use the anger and hurt as fuel that burns and drives you to improve your life and yourself. Don't take her back in matter how much she begs. Don't talk to her unless it's business or about your daughter. Keep it polite but clear that you want zero to do with her. Cheaters are the worst people. Watch your ATM and credit...etc. She probably cheated on you other times too...with people you know. Be thankful you found out. Good luck. It might take a while, but you'll be way better off in the long term.

Originally Posted by Chief Northman:
Be the man your daughter deserves.

As far as your "woman" is concerned, she doesn't deserve you.

Originally Posted by JASONSAUTO:
Damn man sorry to hear this. Don't do anything stupid. Stay strong for the little one.

All of these
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Originally Posted by BucEyedPea:
Feel bad for ya'. A breakup is very painful. But 6 years together and have a child? You shoulda' married her. JMO but don't have all details.

Go out and run real hard or work out real hard.

Fuck no

Marrying is an awful idea
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Originally Posted by eDave:
Don't go overboard. Hide you phone and your keys.

Sucks dude. Happy Valentines day...

Yeah, if you are gonna drink (and I don't blame you for wanting to), be careful. Remember you still have a lot to lose.

Just always think about your daughter. Her happiness, and what it means to you.

Good luck, my man.
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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud:
Dude, I am so sorry.

Just remember, it's not about you, it's about her.

My kids are going to bed in 2 hours. PM me if you're up and want to chat and I'll shoot you my phone number.

Thanks, man.

I put my son to bed an hr or so ago. I'm not far behind him.

I'm a light weight when it comes to drinking. I'm already drowsy.
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I think all the crazy is behind in this day and age.

Just gotta deal with the pain. Not at risk to do anything nuts.......I think..
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Originally Posted by beach tribe:
Thanks, man.

I put my son to bed an hr or so ago. I'm not far behind him.

I'm a light weight when it comes to drinking. I'm already drowsy.

If you can't sleep, PM me.

Tomorrow's Valentine's Day so my little girls are the priority but tomorrow evening, I'll be able to chat.

Take care of yourself and be well. I know this is heartbreaking but stay strong and reach out if you feel like you're faltering. It doesn't need to be me or this forum, just reach out to someone, whether it's a friend or family.
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Damn, dude. Hang in there. You won't realize it now, but this is the best thing for you. Don't let it harden your heart; just realize that it's better you found out now, rather than later.

I feel for you, dude. I've been in this situation more times than I care to admit. The Army has that kind of an effect on a relationship. You'll get it sorted out.
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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud:
If you can't sleep, PM me.

Tomorrow's Valentine's Day so my little girls are the priority but tomorrow evening, I'll be able to chat.

Take care of yourself and be well. I know this is heartbreaking but stay strong and reach out if you feel like you're faltering. It doesn't need to be me or this forum, just reach out.

This for me as well.
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