First I have to be attracted to the women. I don't care if everyone in the world is unattracted to her as long as I am. Then if shes got the personality I'm looking for her I'll show more interest. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Iowanian:
Its bastards like some of you, that make me fairly certain I'll be going to prison when my daughters hit dating age...you know, 35.
Your daughter will probably end up as a playa, workin 3 dudes at once, with you as her dad it sounds about right. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
Pretty much for women a guy could be every thing she wanted but if he had no job or a really shitty one she'd call him a loser or talk to her friends about how it isn't working out.
WRONG. I've never know ANYONE who broke up with someone due to that. If anything, they get stuck with bills due to trying to help them out. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Probably because that those of us not raised by womens' libbers were in the type of environment where the man was the head of the house, aka the main breadwinner. It's not like we're necessarily looking for someone to take care of us (in a way, yes). We just think that the man should have better jobs than we do. I don't know that I could be a stay at home wife. I hate cleaning. If anything, I'd want to use the fact that I also have a job as leverage to talk the hubby into helping more with the household chores. :-)
As for men, where do they learn to be attracted to thin women? Oh yeah, media, friends, society, etc.... They are trained to think that fat = bad, lazy, etc.
I learned on my own, why are you making excuses for what i or others are attraced to?! I know alot of people attracted to losers of all kinds and no one worth a damn, did society teach them that? Everyone has their own brain, is that too hard to accept? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
As for men, where do they learn to be attracted to thin women? Oh yeah, media, friends, society, etc....
Maybe it has to do with genetics? That would be too simple, let's blame the media and society, when in fact they are only representations of the individuals boiled down to the lowest common denominator. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
WRONG. I've never know ANYONE who broke up with someone due to that. If anything, they get stuck with bills due to trying to help them out.
Well then they are good people, better than most women....
My honest advice for you is to not take everything so personally. Look at me, I look a bit different, I know not every woman is going to be attracted to me and it is fine if they say that. I understand it going in it doesn't hurt my feelings if they aren't I just go talk to someone else.
Dating is like baseball, in baseball 3 for 10 is good, in dating if you talk to 20 people and 1 likes you, you won. Just don't take it personally and don't worry about rejection you'll probably never see that person again. [Reply]
I've known guys that lost chics to guys with more money. Its not uncommon at all.
Its no different than the kid in HS with the newest car bought by his daddy pulling legit tail, even though he's no prince. He's got the members only and the shiney Iroc. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Iowanian:
Its bastards like some of you, that make me fairly certain I'll be going to prison when my daughters hit dating age...you know, 35.
You know what is kind of funny though - I remember graduation day at college and saw a bunch of girls with their folks, and just thought what daddy think of his little girl at the bars the other night. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Nightfyre:
Maybe it has to do with genetics? That would be too simple, let's blame the media and society, when in fact they are only representations of the individuals boiled down to the lowest common denominator.
There are some countries where fat women are the ones considered desirable. You're telling me your environment has nothing to do with it? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
There are some countries where fat women are the ones considered desirable. You're telling me your environment has nothing to do with it?
I want to tell you something, did you know this country is one of the fattest in the world? If not getting a G/F or B/F had alot to do with being overweight we'd have a ton of single people.... [Reply]
Originally Posted by Iowanian:
Thats not true Luv.
Explain where "gold digger" came from....
I've known guys that lost chics to guys with more money. Its not uncommon at all.
Its no different than the kid in HS with the newest car bought by his daddy pulling legit tail, even though he's no prince. He's got the members only and the shiney Iroc.
Or the girl that was a total bitch who always got the guys because she was an arm trophy. [Reply]
