Finding someone not attractive has nothing to do with being shallow, there are people you are just not physically attracted to at all, that's life.
A woman will say a man doing that to them is being an asshole but a woman will judge a man based on the size of his wallet and think that's fine. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
I think we've pissed luv off.
No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't. [Reply]
Overweight girls are not pleasing to my eye or my mind. I am not 'attracted' to them. I also am not 'attracted' to certain personality traits. If I get with any chick who looks hot, then I agree that would be shallow. However, not pursuing someone I'm not attracted to does not make me shallow.
Agreed, ive dated some hot chicks that are really stupid, annoying etc...that turns me off...yet they were still fun to "hang" with....GF material is a diff story [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.
Not being attracted to all shapes and sizes = immature.
Originally Posted by luv:
No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.
What's wrong with a guy not liking a heavy person? The attraction isn't there for most of us, just like some chicks don't dig thin guys and only ripped guys etc...how does that make the person immature if they aren't attracted to a 200lb chick? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
Finding someone not attractive has nothing to do with being shallow, there are people you are just not physically attracted to at all, that's life.
A woman will say a man doing that to them is being an asshole but a woman will judge a man based on the size of his wallet and think that's fine.
Seeing as how I'm griping about being fat, you must be poor. We can both change our disposition, though. I did. Last year. Found out that although I felt better and looked better, people still saw me as fat. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
So, were you not attracted to her because she was overweight, or simply because you weren't attracted to her. If it's because she was fat, then it was a choice. Attraction not being a choice is when you can only say you weren't attracted to them simply because you weren't. Size, age, etc shouldn't matter.
Me too. BIG time. Pun intended. There are definitely a lot more girls I can't have sex with than girls I can, but that doesn't mean you can't have some of what you want. I agree with the consensus here GC, you need to work on your skills with anyone willing at this point. The time for picking and choosing will come later. I wouldn't even begin to try and explain the uncanny resemblance between the first girl I ever porked and a blue whale. Get in where you fit in. You can improve that area with experience. Get drunk if necessary, I promise girls will become more attractive to you. Just don't drink too much............ [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Seeing as how I'm griping about being fat, you must be poor. We can both change our disposition, though. I did. Last year. Found out that although I felt better and looked better, people still saw me as fat.
I'm just saying everyone is shallow about something...but some people just aren't attracted to each other. If some chick has a crooked nose, missing front teeth and a big scar on her cheek should I somehow think she's ok looking? [Reply]
Originally Posted by Mecca:
I'm just saying everyone is shallow about something...but some people just aren't attracted to each other. If some chick has a crooked nose, missing front teeth and a big scar on her cheek should I somehow think she's ok looking?
See, I don't even care about noses. Or scars. My standards aren't too high. I'd **** a 9. :-) [Reply]
Originally Posted by Sure-Oz:
Why are you taking it so damn personal cause everyone has their own tastes?
Because I've never been anyone's taste. The one time I thought I was, and he turns out to be a lying, cheating scum who used me. And you guys say that woen are the ones who use guys for such things as money and good credit. [Reply]
The elephant man had a soul mate who'd suck his taters.
Everyone does have their own tastes though. Some guys PREFER meaty women, some like stick figures, some guys like ethnic chics.....and its not like all women have the same taste either. [Reply]
