Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think? [Reply]
The whole texting thing where she deletes them etc is a huge red flag.
DO NOT move in with this girl. You're asking for a world of hurt if you do.
Just leave her. If she really likes you she will try to get you back, then the ball is in your court and you can tell her how things should be if you're gonna be in a relationship. [Reply]
Originally Posted by DeezNutz:
I wouldn't even waste my valuable sperm on ****ing her one last time.
Be glad you found all this out now before you moved in together. Sucks now, but you're very fortunate.
I wouldn't go that far. If you can handle it emotionally, I would suggest that you tell her you want to slow things down. Don't move in together. Find some new women to date and keep her as a around as a hookup.
If you can't handle the idea of her fvcking other dudes, call it quits now.
Going down this path without you checking your girl is going to get you castrated, broke, and depressed.
I know from my own experience...easier now then it will ever be.
Remember you are the catch not her. She dosn't respect or deserve you. It only gets worse. [Reply]
Originally Posted by sedated:
she seems to have no clue how to respect her boyfriend and relationship.
I've felt that way for a pretty long time now and tried talking to her about it many times... she just doesn't understand. I don't get how she was in a two year relationship before me. [Reply]
Originally Posted by RustShack:
I've felt that way for a pretty long time now and tried talking to her about it many times... she just doesn't understand. I don't get how she was in a two year relationship before me.
Let me guess, she is a goddess in the sack, yes? [Reply]