Originally Posted by Claythan:
Something doesn't add up. Why would she sit there and blab for two hours if she wasn't into me? She's already admitted to being extremely shy. I think she can't even bring herself to IM me first. The poor dear.
Originally Posted by Claythan:
Something doesn't add up. Why would she sit there and blab for two hours if she wasn't into me? She's already admitted to being extremely shy. I think she can't even bring herself to IM me first. The poor dear.
I'll wait a couple more days and then ask her.
YOU blabbed for 2 hours. She just sat there and typed some short response every now and then.
She's not into you at all. You're essentially having a conversation with yourself, and it's pretty pathetic. Who the heck asks "did you enjoy our chat last night?"
All of your discussion is on practical crap too - her job, her future job, etc. You need to talk about stupid stuff - flirt. For example, last night I was talking to a girl and after we exchanged names we started talking about names. She said my name wasn't creepy but there were some creepy guy names - so I start rattling off names and she rates their creepiness. We get to 'Frank' and she said she had a best friend named Frank and that Frank's are great friends. So that leads to "So, Franks don't get the girls, huh?" "Nope" "I wasn't planning on it, but now I could never name my kid Frank" etc. etc. etc. Just stupid conversation. She doesn't want to spend 2 hours talking about her job [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
Ain't she the sweetest?
Note: this is from last night. Tonight she's been on AIM for hours and won't initiate anything. I don't know what her deal is. I'm going to leave the ball in her court, though.
What he needs to go after is an outgoing chick. Watching two shy people have a conversation is like watching the Chiefs play the Raiders. It's boring and not a lot gets accomplished. [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
Okay, it's not really about dating, but I do have a question for the guys. Does it really turn you on to have a girl moaning non-stop? And I'm talking about the whining kind of moan. It sounds like they're in pain instead of pleasure. Do you really need the audio along with the visual?
I can give you the male perspective on this, and that at the time we really could care less what sounds the girl makes. :-)
Same with the girl faking it; most guys are fine with this. [Reply]
