Originally Posted by Phobia:
I married about right. Unfortunately for my wife I got much uglier and poorer right after the marriage.
See, that's what concerns me....I was ugly when I got married....then got uglier. Doesn't say much for Mrs. Mercers taste. She is a chubby chaser, though..... [Reply]
Originally Posted by ROYC75:
but unlike any young couple, they have their hands full trying to make ends meet.
You know actually looking back on our/my marriage (now going on 14 years)that was probably the most fun and exciting time, although we didn't relize it. We were married young as well 21 and 20. Scrounging for change in the couch to go buy dessert, or get a movie. A few extra dollars at the end of the week to go out and splurge at some diner. We made our own fun and enjoyed it until we had the means of doing things with money.
Now that we have been successful in careers and are raising 2 kids part of me misses that time of innocence and non-responiblity (at least not as much as now with business, kids, wife, house, car, etc., etc.) If you work at it together it is actually a wonderful experience and one that builds itself to and even better relationship with your spouse down the road. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Stinger:
You know actually looking back on our/my marriage (now going on 14 years)that was probably the most fun and exciting time, although we didn't relize it. We were married young as well 21 and 20. Scrounging for change in the couch to go buy dessert, or get a movie. A few extra dollars at the end of the week to go out and splurge at some diner. We made our own fun and enjoyed it until we had the means of doing things with money.
Now that we have been successful in careers and are raising 2 kids part of me misses that time of innocence and non-responiblity (at least not as much as now with business, kids, wife, house, car, etc., etc.) If you work at it together it is actually a wonderful experience and one that builds itself to and even better relationship with your spouse down the road.
Originally Posted by Stinger:
You know actually looking back on our/my marriage (now going on 14 years)that was probably the most fun and exciting time, although we didn't relize it. We were married young as well 21 and 20. Scrounging for change in the couch to go buy dessert, or get a movie. A few extra dollars at the end of the week to go out and splurge at some diner. We made our own fun and enjoyed it until we had the means of doing things with money.
Now that we have been successful in careers and are raising 2 kids part of me misses that time of innocence and non-responiblity (at least not as much as now with business, kids, wife, house, car, etc., etc.) If you work at it together it is actually a wonderful experience and one that builds itself to and even better relationship with your spouse down the road.
Originally Posted by Stinger:
You know actually looking back on our/my marriage (now going on 14 years)that was probably the most fun and exciting time, although we didn't relize it. We were married young as well 21 and 20. Scrounging for change in the couch to go buy dessert, or get a movie. A few extra dollars at the end of the week to go out and splurge at some diner. We made our own fun and enjoyed it until we had the means of doing things with money.
Now that we have been successful in careers and are raising 2 kids part of me misses that time of innocence and non-responiblity (at least not as much as now with business, kids, wife, house, car, etc., etc.) If you work at it together it is actually a wonderful experience and one that builds itself to and even better relationship with your spouse down the road.
i don't know what compelled me to read this thread at all, but i'm glad i did - that's one of the best things i've seen on an IMB. well done. [Reply]
Originally Posted by isired:
i don't know what compelled me to read this thread at all, but i'm glad i did - that's one of the best things i've seen on an IMB. well done.
You don't know the half of it. If you had a smidgeon of background, you'd want to write a sitcom. [Reply]
Man go bo, having been married for 13 year's but divorced the last 4 i really identify w/ your post. I think i need to go rent Bridge's of Madison County or something similar now and have a good :-):-) [Reply]