Originally Posted by Phobia:
Please. He's a dude. Of course that's what he's flying down for. He's gonna be on his very best behavior and say all the right things to you. You'll both have a nice time and end up in the sack. What's wrong with consenting adults participating in a little hanky panky? You're a grown woman. It's okay.
There's nothing wrong with it. The dude says he's looking for a serious relationship. To me, that means respect. I have to respect myself enough not to let it happen, and he has to respect me enough not to try after one day together. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Phobia:
Dude is flying 500 miles. If he were at risk for VD, he'd be dating one of the 3,000,000 ladies in Chicago. I'm guessing he hasn't had a taste since his divorce.
bingo
I wonder if he knows he is a new superstar on the Planet yet?? [Reply]
Originally Posted by luv:
and he has to respect me enough not to try after one day together.
No offense Luv, but I'm being honest here. Number one goal in EVERY guy's mind is to get some. Sure we all are looking for a good relationship, but that comes later. EVERY guy is looking to get some when they can. [Reply]
Originally Posted by GoChiefs:
Bloody hell. What about IM?
You have to contact them in order to get them your info. Unless you go around the filter they have. Like, I would say...if you luv_2_rite then you should say yahoo! Something corny like that. [Reply]