I need some help with some things i need to know on gettin married, the do's, the dont's, the things you need to know about that.
I see you guys here some are married some arent so the ones that know stuff i need to know let me know about it.
So what are the things i should know about it, cause i dont wanna wait my whole life to get married, i actually wanna be married before i turn 26 which is 6 years from now.
But I wanna get started early in startin a family, so what are the do's and dont's in marriage ???
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
If you want to be in some piss-poor relationship that's based on infatuation and lust, then yes, you only get out what you put in. That is a fact of life, and so many people go for it because they have all lost sight of what love really is. They think that they can find it just because they went through all of the relationship stuff in highschool and college...they think that they can find it just because they're in the "real world"...that is why it's so rare to find love anymore and why people would just jump to the conclusion that it's human nature to be infatuatious and filled with lust.
And just how many relationships have you been in after puberty?
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
If you want to be in some piss-poor relationship that's based on infatuation and lust, then yes, you only get out what you put in. That is a fact of life, and so many people go for it because they have all lost sight of what love really is. They think that they can find it just because they went through all of the relationship stuff in highschool and college...they think that they can find it just because they're in the "real world"...that is why it's so rare to find love anymore and why people would just jump to the conclusion that it's human nature to be infatuatious and filled with lust.
Oh, forgot to mention that my "piss-poor relationship that's based on infatuation and lust" just ended up in me spending almost 7k on a new wedding ring for my wife because I just lust after her and have no love for her.
I'll guarantee you this, my relationship will last longer than ALL of yours combined.
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
Marriages don't have a good chance of lasting long no matter what age you are...doesn't really matter what time period you're from either.
Of course not if you expect it to be like a f*cking hollywood teenage girl romance flick.
Originally Posted by unlurking:
Oh, forgot to mention that my "piss-poor relationship that's based on infatuation and lust" just ended up in me spending almost 7k on a new wedding ring for my wife because I just lust after her and have no love for her.
I'll guarantee you this, my relationship will last longer than ALL of yours combined.
I don't know when they go bad its not worth any amount of money to stay and suffer the rest of your life over, you only live once don't waste it cause of money.
Originally Posted by badgirl:
That who I meant to read it, I knew you weren't throwing it at me, I was just getting your back on the subject. I fully agree :-)
Ahh, OK, my bad.
Spank me?!
Oh god dammit!!!!!!!!
I must not really love my wife cuz I'm on here flirtin' with a stranger!!!!
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
Wow, you completely missed the point...:-)
I suppose I'll answer, but just promise to go back and get the point of that previous post, okay?
8, and enough.
Damn!!!
You a player!!!
So if I told you you've had more relationships already than I have, who do you think has a better idea of keeping one solid?
Oh, and what is your point other than to talk shit about something you don't know about since 8 relationships after puberty (which is what, 3 years?) is OBVIOUSLY not a real relationship?
Originally Posted by Chico Diablo:
Marriages don't have a good chance of lasting long no matter what age you are...doesn't really matter what time period you're from either.
I agree and disagree. My first wife I was married 3 months. Too young, didn't understand the committment I was making, nor did she.
A couple of years later, I got married again. We just celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary. It's going great.
