Originally Posted by pestilenceaf23:
Oh yeah....when you first meet her.....tell her that she looks amazing.
EDIT: Tell her that while looking in her eyes. She'll know that you're not telling the truth if you're saying it to her chest.
If you're going to go this route. You need to really use a lot of eye contact and be extremely confident. Even captivating. OTOH, don't tell her she looks nice, or pretty, or even good. Great is a good word, although I think you can handle this kind of stuff. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Claythan:
Don't worry, I'm not completely stupid. I won't say shit about anything remotely nerdy.
Unless she does.
If she does that then you need to playfully give her crap about it....while still revealing that you're a little nerdy yourself. You don't want her to mention Star Wars and then you bust out that you own all of the figures from the 70's. [Reply]
Originally Posted by bogey:
Yes, look her directly in her eyes when you're talking and when you're listening. That's very important. Direct eye contact.
Not in a creepy, Pee Wee Herman kind of way, mind you. Just make her feel like she is the center of your attention. [Reply]
She messaged you. There is obviously something about you that she found interesting. You should have a good amount of confidence because of this. Now use that to your advantage. [Reply]
Originally Posted by Donger:
I'm going to have to remember some of this stuff. Got a date with the wife tonight, although she's pretty much a sure thing.
Originally Posted by Mr Flopnuts:
My wife and I celebrated 6 years together yesterday. It's as good now as it was then. :-) It's better now that I'm 100lbs lighter.