Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think? [Reply]
Originally Posted by MediaCenterJunkie:
I already nominated it for the HOC
I guess if its dead, its time for it to go.
Hell no, everyone who works decent hours needs to catch up and comment. Plus when Preston gets home from flipping burgers at MickyD's, he might show up after consuming a couple wine coolers. [Reply]
Originally Posted by kstater:
Hell no, everyone who works decent hours needs to catch up and comment. Plus when Preston gets home from flipping burgers at MickyD's, he might show up after consuming a couple wine coolers.
Originally Posted by Mile High Mania:
If it's really "just friends" and if you two are really involved to the point of considering living together, then you should just go to the movie with her.
Flip the switch on her...
Say "Great, movies sound cool, it will be nice to meet this group" and if she pushes back on that, you can do what comes naturally.
Obviously, I'm with the rest of the majority here... I think you're getting played and she has very likely already crossed 'that line'. I don't know you, but if this relationship is seriously at the point to where you should be moving in together (which is a major mistake anyway), then this trip to the movies wouldn't be happening.
Ask yourself this... make a list of what is different with the two of you NOW compared to before her friend met this guy and his crew? Hell, put on a hat and glasses and go to the movie - have a friend go and check out what happens with that group. It will clear things up a hell of a lot faster for you. But, if it is just friends and you're busted ... then yeah, you're SOL. So, have a buddy go.
I can understand her having guy friends... with people she knew before you two were an item, but this li'l episode won't end well.
Fug all that, just ask her to swap cell phones whith you for a day. If she hesitates at all, tell her the following. "It has been nice knowing you, but it's over. I just want you to know one thing, I will always fondly remember F****ng you".
Not another word after that, change your cell phone number and move on. [Reply]
