Hi! I've been gon a long time! I've switched several jobs, got married (a mistake at this point) and lost 56 lbs. Unfortunately, I lost weight mostly through illness. Now I have completely quit booze and it's coming off steadily. Down to 224 from 286. 46 inch waist to 38. I am on top of my illness and things are looking good. Except the marriage.
Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.
I'll tell you one thing as I approach 40, if my wife every leaves me or dies, I will never get married again. Past a certain age it's just rather meaningless. Be with someone when you're older but skip the legal stuff in case it goes poorly. [Reply]
Originally Posted by burt:
I only have to accept what's true. Niether one of us was aware. Damn Ancestry.com! LOL. Since, for a change, I am blameless, no resentment towards me. His Mom, obviously HAS to maintain ignorence.
Glad to hear he has no resentment. It has to be really cool and very life changing for both of you. [Reply]
Originally Posted by burt:
Yes. Via PM's. And she swears she didn't know. But regardless, she HAS to stick to that story now. Or completely spin out her son.
You must have left a lasting impression, if he’s a spitting image of you
Originally Posted by myselff77:
I don't understand this part. Did the Mom pretend someone else was the father his entire life?
Def said he had two moms because Burt is so manly she couldn't risk being around all that high T. It would be like two Dan Campbells in the same room. [Reply]
